M.T.A. and Workers Shun Confrontation
The Metropolitan Transit Authority and the Transport Workers Union have not been able to complete a new contract and agreed instead to go to binding arbitration.
With Mediator, Boeing and Union to Renew Contract Talks
Negotiations to end a 45-day machinists union strike against the Boeing Company will resume with a federal mediator in Washington, D.C.
Mr. Mugabe’s Latest Betrayal
It will take a lot more international pressure to force President Robert Mugabe of Zimbabwe to respect a power-sharing deal with Morgan Tsvangirai.
Former Finnish President Wins Nobel Peace Prize
<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/11/world/europe/11nobel.html?partner=rssnyt&emc=rss"><img src="http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2008/10/11/world/11nobel_75.jpg" border="0" height="75" width="75" hspace="4" align="left"></a>Martti Ahtisaari has worked to end conflicts in troubled spots around the world for more than three decades.
Companies Unlikely to Use Arbitration With Each Other
This week, the Supreme Court will hear arguments in a case about the enforceability of arbitration agreements.
Zimbabwe Rivals Strike a Bargain to Share Power
It was unclear what a deal between the opposition leader Morgan Tsvangirai and President Robert Mugabe entails.
Study Finds Settling Is Better Than Going to Trial
<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/08/08/business/08law.html?partner=rssnyt&emc=rss"><img src="http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2008/08/08/business/lawsuit75.jpg" border="0" height="75" width="75" hspace="4" align="left"></a>A study of civil lawsuits has found that most of the plaintiffs who decided to pass up a settlement offer and went to trial ended up getting less money.
Swimmer Pulls Out, Upsetting Her Rivals
<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/08/02/sports/olympics/02swim.html?partner=rssnyt&emc=rss"><img src="http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2008/08/02/sports/olympics/02swim.75.jpg" border="0" height="75" width="75" hspace="4" align="left"></a>Jessica Hardy withdrew from the United States swim team, declining to pursue an appeal after a failed drug test.
Change in Arbitration Panels Will Allow Investors Only
Investors who think they have been wronged by brokers will be able to have their cases heard by panels consisting only of their peers, with no industry participants.
Talks to Start on Zimbabwe Crisis
South Africa is hoping to convene negotiations between Zimbabwe’s feuding political parties on Tuesday, one day after their leaders met face to face.
Zimbabwe Rivals Tentatively Begin Talks on Political Crisis
The talks between President Robert Mugabe’s ruling party and the opposition are preliminary, but their start is a victory for South African Thabo Mbeki, the regional mediator.
Qatar, Playing All Sides, Is a Nonstop Mediator
In an increasingly divided Arab world, the Qataris have fashioned a reputation as independent arbitrators.
Complex Ties Lead Ally Not to Condemn Mugabe
<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/27/world/africa/27mbeki.html?partner=rssnyt&emc=rss"><img src="http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2008/06/27/world/zimbabwe_7575.jpg" border="0" height="75" width="75" hspace="4" align="left"></a>South Africa’s president, Thabo Mbeki, is convinced that he can resolve the Zimbabwe crisis through patient negotiations with Robert Mugabe.
Canada Offers an Apology for Native Students’ Abuse
<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/12/world/americas/12canada.html?partner=rssnyt&emc=rss"><img src="http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2008/06/12/world/school.75.jpg" border="0" height="75" width="75" hspace="4" align="left"></a>The Canadian government apologized for forcing about 150,000 native children into government-financed residential schools where many suffered physical and sexual abuse.
Israel Holds Peace Talks With Syria
The governments confirmed that Israel and Syria have begun indirect peace talks, mediated by Turkey, aimed at reaching a comprehensive accord.


probably result in a lot of uncollected support. The last thing you want is to go to war with a person like this. So now we talk about the most important decision you will make. The kind of divorce you have is up to you? Some people want to go in guns blazing. There are a LOT of attorneys who just love clients like that because they know they can make a lot of money off of you. But if you have a self employed spouse, you NEED them to cooperate. You know what your grandmother used to say about catching more flies with honey. A long, expensive, adversarial divorce will not produce a workable result when the side who owes the support is self employed. They will dig in their heals and do so much creative accounting, you will end up paying them.

We create our lives out of our intention. That may sound counter intuitive. You didn't intend for your marriage to end, did you? Imagine your intention is like a muscle, the more you exercise it, the stronger it gets. If the two of you intend to break up with as much cooperation and generosity as possible BOTH of you will be better off, financially and emotionally. I always say the same thing to people, you can divide the pie two ways or four ways. Which way do you get the most? When you use divorce mediation, you cut out the lawyers. The average fees in California, when both sides have their own lawyers is $20,000 each, but the truth is that the more you have to lose the more your fees will be. California divorce attorneys are the only kinds of lawyers whose fees are protected by the equity in your home. They KNOW they are getting paid. Do you think the case will take longer or resolve itself quickly when you have a lot of assets? Human nature being what it is, certain attorneys will make sure the case does not settle until there is nothing left to fight about. If you want more details, read Charles Dickens' Bleak House. Nothing has changed since the 1800s.

The overwhelming majority of people know what they have. Most couples know exactly what assets they have so there are no issues of secret Swiss bank accounts so why do their lawyers spend thousands of dollars taking depositions and serving subpoenas. Why buy more than you need? You would never do that with a house or a car? Why would you do it with a divorce? I am not saying is for everyone but if the two of you are decent people who just want out, no one is trying to hurt the other one and both of you are honest and reliable about money with enough honor to keep your word, then you are the perfect client for mediation.

Divorce is a transition that has its challenges but an experienced mediator will help you in a way that is peaceful and respectful to both of you. Prices for are determined by expertise and where you are located so make several calls, interview several mediators to make sure you are fully informed. In my own practice the whole process, on average, takes between 4-7 hours but there is certain homework that must be done prior to working with me. Ask the mediator what percentage of their cases settle and how many meetings did it take. In California the average cost when both sides have their own attorney is $40,000 so whatever the mediator charges will be a tiny fraction of that. The financial benefits of are obvious but more importantly, you will be comfortable enough with your spouse to co-parent your children. This is the best gift you can give to your children. I ought to know, I was one of those kids caught in the middle. This is why I do what I do. Using instead of litigation brings some sanity back into the divorce process because the adversarial system destroys families. So ask yourself, what kind of divorce do you want? Peaceful divorce is an idea whose time has come.

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